''Kindness is the essence of greatness''                                                                                                                                       -Joseph B. Wirthlin                                                                            What this means to me is that the key to being great is to be kind. An example that id give for this quote is when you get mad at the player and the referee tells you to stop. Then you get mad at the ref then he gives you a card. Then you cuzz at him. You realize later on that it wasnt worth saying that to the ref. That wasnt right, all for what? a game? So thats my example for this quote. Based on me, i didnt agree to this example because i do the opposite. I may cuzz at him but at the end of the day i win. Why? because i never see that referee no more. So i think its worth it. This relates to me because i am only kind to people that i really care alot about.